整体运势：

　　属马人在2009年遭遇第三大凶星“岁害星君”，是2009年第三大凶生肖。 “午马以旺火凌丑牛死金，名官鬼相害，故丑见午而午更带丑干之真魂，则为害尤甚”。最主要的表现在感情和身体上，感情上主夫妻不和，已婚者主婚变，未婚者主感情复杂交错，可佩带“泰山符”项链镇压危害感情婚姻的凶气。身体方面注意心脏，血液，眼睛，皮肤等疾病。

　　在工作事业上主要是小人当道，工作成果因害小人而前功尽弃，所剩无几。并且做事容易半途而废，该成的事情成不了。困难比较多，容易引起口舌官司，所以应该多注意自己的言行，避免因为言行不当引起小人犯难。做好事无好报，因情成怨，因怨成仇。09年最好在家中摆放“山海镇”化解这些。在财运上“干禄”、“紫薇”星双双降临，财运俸禄均有所增加，正财很好，偏财也不错，但是要注意防诈被骗。与家庭成员之间，预防兄弟不合，姐妹成仇。个人会因凶星影响，性格变的多怒易火，固执急躁，遇事冲动，需要时刻保持冷静，沉着谨慎处理工作事业家庭感情中的所有问题。

　　农历正月：

　　天干：丙火

　　地支：寅木

　　阳历：1月26日至2月24日

　　本月因有凶星“白虎”、“地杀”、“大杀”入命，运势有所下滑，尤其要注意身体和红伤灾祸，容易有飞来之祸，注意行车安全。最好年初就佩带“泰山符”。多加努力方可保事业继续发展，工作压力大，谨防小人以免使努力化为泡影。这期间应注意搞好人际关系，与人多交流，以免陷入人际困局，使工作事业遭受恶劣影响。财运较为一般，横财相对低迷，风险类投资不宜进行，即使进行也应择吉日，以免血本无归。

　　农历二月：

　　天干：丁火

　　地支：卯木

　　阳历：2月25日至3月26日

　　本月是今年桃花最旺的一月，对于没有伴侣的朋友来说相当不错；但是对已经有伴侣或已经结婚的马人来说相当糟糕，非常容易因误会而中断感情或离异。工作上还不错，比较称心意，可得上司青睐，不过须注意保持低调，避免招致同事妒嫉。财运颇佳，但财富难聚，不宜进行风险类投资。身体方面须注意饮食卫生，避免病从口入。

　　农历三月：

　　天干：戊土

　　地支：辰土

　　阳历：3月27日至4月24日

　　本月运势工作可能遇到些小阻碍，要小心应对，以免造成恶劣影响。这期间应多花些精力改善人际关系，但须注意主观性不宜太强，应多听取别人意见。财运不差，可惜不稳定，财富难积聚，忌做担保或进行借贷。另外要多注意健康问题，宜多休息调养身体。

　　农历四月：

　　天干：己土

　　地支：巳火

　　阳历：4月25日至5月23日

　　本月是“亡神星”入局，严重影响健康，尤其是眼睛心脏方面。事业上会有一些小阻碍，只要小心经营，也能获得平步发展；工作方面压力仍在，会有一些意想不到的麻烦，不可大意。凡事不宜拖拖拉拉，应快速处理，以免后患无穷。另外要注意不要招惹事端，尽量避免与人口舌争吵。感情方面有所进展，已婚者要小心桃花劫。本月可选择出外旅游放松身心。

　　农历五月：(闰五月)

　　天干：庚金

　　地支：午火

　　阳历：5月24日至7月21日

　　本月运势吉凶参半，工作事业方面可能会遇到不少阻碍，但终会逢凶化吉。只须积极做好面对困难的准备，提高警戒，对突如其来的麻烦需要从容应对，一切自会平稳度过。凡事宜以小心谨慎为好，切忌感情用事，不要卷入是非圈。财运不错，对风险类投资，还是尽量适可而止为好，避免因贪致贫。感情方面易出现摩擦，应多些宽容，勿过多苛求。

　　农历六月：

　　天干：辛金

　　地支：未土

　　阳历：7月22日至8月19日

　　本月工作上不宜强出头，免招同事或上司侧目，而成替罪羊。对于无谓应酬，能免则免，须谨防得罪小人而不自知。利读书进修，考试会有好于寻常的发挥。运势较之上月要好些，事业虽有阻碍，如精心发展，仍有不错局面。财运尚可，但横财不利，不宜进行风险类投资，对彩民而言不是购买彩票的月份，抱着娱乐的心态为好。应多花时间与心思呵护感情，避免出现影响感情的问题。

　　农历七月：

　　天干：壬水

　　地支：申金

　　阳历：8月20日至9月18日

　　本月注意避免口舌问题引发的风波，多加提防小人，万不可疏忽，以免成为麻烦开端。工作事业方面可能会遇到不少阻碍，应做好面对困难的准备，提高警戒，以免被突如其来的麻烦打乱节奏。财运则是盈中有损，或许有不错收入，只是财富难守，少有剩余，不宜进行大规模投资及风险类投资。感情方面易出现小矛盾，提防第三者。

　　农历八月：

　　天干：癸水

　　地支：酉金

　　阳历：9月19日至10月17日

　　本月的运势虽有反复，总体仍相当不错，事业运尤其佳。可能会有些许压力，但不阻碍发展！不过一定要注意以稳为主，切勿浮躁急进，而致凭空出现变数！要好好规划一下，以抓住良好的发展时机。财运方面要好于上月，可适当进行投资，但切忌过贪！感情上也有可喜进展，不过须专情些，不招孽缘，提防多角恋。身体方面须多加提防肠胃疼痛。

　　农历九月：

　　天干：甲木

　　地支：戌土

　　阳历：10月18日至11月16日

　　本月得到“财星”庇佑，财运亨通，旺及正财及偏财，财不请自来，可适当的尝试风险类投资，如彩票；但务必以休闲娱乐为主，勿沉迷为好。 上月的阴霾可以说是一扫而空，在事业上将迎来大好的发展良机，宜把握时机才能有大的发展。感情方面出现桃花运，男女的异性缘都不错，多姿多彩是本月的感情写照，但是要防止玩火自焚。

　　农历十月：

　　天干：乙木

　　地支：亥水

　　阳历：11月17日至12月15日

　　本月工作上表现多多，宜把握机会，赢得上司青睐。但由于是年末，要切记安份收己，宜守不宜攻！财运较好，投资谨慎些亦可获利！感情上会出现些风波，应给予耐心呵护，使感情走上正轨！注意身体健康，避免因劳心劳力而出现疾病。

　　农历十一月：

　　天干：丙火

　　地支：子水

　　阳历：12月16日至2010年1月14日

　　本月遭遇“灾煞”，特别注意红伤灾祸，尤其是硬伤和外伤，婚姻方面也注意多谦让对方。工作事业方面会有不少阻碍，生活上也有一些麻烦的事发生，可以说任何事都不太顺利，一切皆应小心谨慎，凡事不可冒进，宜稳中求进。另外要注意避免招惹是非，莫管闲事，警惕小人，不要误交损友，以防被骗取钱财。

　　农历十二月：

　　天干：丁火

　　地支：丑土

　　阳历：2010年1月15日至2010年2月13日

　　本月是近两年败运的终结，作为最后一个败运月，各个方面都要注意。易招惹是非，容易因一般的口舌等麻烦引起大纷争，甚至到难以收拾的地步。要看清形势，低调做人，灵活应变，避免把问题越弄越糟。感情方面多多与爱人沟通，避免裂痕越来越大，身体方面的疾病和老病也要特别关注，早早治疗。

I can't deny that rainy days could cause blue mood. Without sunshine in the sky, everything becomes dull. That's why I like sunny days. But of course, without rainy days, we will never know how important the sunny days are.

On the way back home from city, I said to my friends, 'I begin to doubt that most of the men in this world will finally marry to the one whom they don't really love deeply. Why? Because I begin to think that you could never find the one you like the most while she's kind of woman who could handle your home well.' He replied, 'You know, it's said that we are lucky to meet three persons in this world, the one you like the most, the one who likes you the most, and the one you choose to marry. In most circumstances, they are different persons. And after you understand how to love a person and how to be loved by a person, you could have a happy marriage and handle things well in a relationship. '

From lovers to marriage, it takes time and there're always lots of obstacles arising during the progress. It's a gorgeous thing for both persons love at first sight and get married later on. But we all know that it rarely happen to us in reality. When we are getting older, but let me use 'mature' instead, your past experience is keeping you away from the fantasy and you begin to doubt your naive thoughts.

To love or be loved, what will you choose? No answer is the correct answer. Go for the one which could bring you more joy. But for men, I think the latter would be a more practical option indeed. Time is limit, if you keep spending more time on pleasing the one you like, you will definitely have less time on other aspects, e.g. work. No matter how time goes by, work is still the priority for men. I came across a sentence in the drama I saw recently, 'The attraction of woman is reflected by age (negatively related) while financial status will demonstrate a man's value (positively related).' It sounds to be funny but still casts a light in our reality.

I think man should marry either early or late. Getting stuck in the middle will be dangerous and cost you more valuable time and effort. Getting married earlier usually means that you both marry each other simply for naive and impulsive feeling from heart. On the contrary, more other factors except for sole feeling will take priority in late marriage because on one in the relationship could afford to play a game again. If you miss the first stage, you will end up stepping into a so-called confusing stage two where both man and woman will believe that they are not getting married for mere marriage and therefore will like to spend time on searching a so-called 'real lover'. In fact, they don't really realise that marriage is not equal to love. A good lover might not be a good husband or wife. Getting a real love in the end might not mean marriage. But most of us still prefer to believe that we are the exceptional ones in the world who could finally find the one who is our lover and also another half. Again, no one knows. Probably we could. If you are affordable for the value of time. Then go for it again. 

Here is what I came cross yesterday when reading a non-fiction book. Are you the exception?

'In life, people tend to wait for good things to come to them. And by waiting, they miss out. Usually, what you wish for doesn't fall in your lap; it falls somewhere nearby, and you have to recognize it, stand up, and put in the time and work it takes to get to it. This isn't because the universe is cruel. It's because the universe is smart. It has its own cat-string theory and knows we don't appreciate things that fall into our laps. '

With the PIG leaving soon, we're gonna welcome the RAT to be with us for the next one year. When i had a so-called  'New-Year-Eve' dinner with my friend tonite, we discussed and then got confused by the English translation of the Chinese horoscope. Why must '鼠年' be the year of RAT instead of MOUSE? According to the definition of Cambridge online dictionary, RAT is 'a small rodent, larger than a mouse, which has a long tail and is considered to be harmful'. And MOUSE is 'a small mammal with short fur, a pointed face, and a long tail'. In this context, will the coming year be the year of harm?

It's really true that time passes by at an increasing speed. From kid to youth followed by 20s and then real adult now, all the memories are just like the yesterday stuffs. That's what i feel. Life is really short...I still can't figure out how i will suddenly come to a threshold of life (30). Looking back, i don't know if i choose the right way. No one can tell anyway. No regret? Obviously no...but what i can say is that i'm happy with what i'm so far after weighting the pros and cons.

Entering into a new era of life (maybe it's a bit too serious), I know that i should figure out how i should go on with my way coz delaying answering a question is not a good solution.

Nine months, yes, it's been almost nine months since i went to the gym last time early this year. Lazy, lazy, lazy....laziness is the important reason why i stopped going there since then. Another could be the seasonal factor. Personally, i like summer coz everything seems to be active. And cold winter always makes me lazy and inactive. With annual daylight saving program starting from today, it indicates summer finally arrives. To me, summer is always a season with fun and interesting memory.

No more 'thick' clothes, no more 'layer' skills any more in summer. Thus, you don't have any more way to hide your fat. For gals, it's show time for you to display variety of color on you slim figure. For guys, the only way to wear the Tees well or fit in the skinny jeans is to do more exercise and keep body fit. Though i'm not gonna train myself to be a muscle guy, i still need exercise to burn some calories and get rid of some fat, especially around my waist. I ever read an article saying that guys with big size waist must not be wealthy. Why? I could only interpret it this way. That is, wealthy persons will care about their body much more and find ways to keep meals healthy and get more exercise to have longer life. Ha......though i don't know if i could become rich with smaller size waist, the only thing i know is that i will have more confidence with better body figure which in turns makes me look more like a 'man'. The much important thing is that i will feel much more happier after exercise and temporarily relax and free from any worry.

Sunshine summer is here now.

I remember once i came across a japanese movie called "電視看多了會傻". Though the name is very very funny, i never downloaded it to watch coz worrying i will become idiot after watching. Ha.......but the meaning inside is true i think. I don't know what the purpose is for such movie. But in terms of the title, i think it could also mean that it will become worse when u do thing too much and exceed certain level. It's called "过犹不及".

We all know this term but just don't know how to take it well and make things rite. In most of cases, we only realize that we do too much until things go wrong. And when it comes to that point, it's quite difficult for you to handle already. Especially in love, the more u care, the more u think, and the more u feel confused. Everyone just wants to get away from this hard time but unfortunately when u are involved, u could escape from this weird trap, and suffering...

My colleague kept asking me today why i always stay late everyday and don't wanna go back home. Wow....it's a good question but embarrasing. Shall i say directly that i'm ineffective and inefficient and therefore look for time to make up. Ha. Well, nothing to do is one reason. Another might be that i could find the value of myself in completing one by one assignment with compliment from partners. But the important reason is that you don't need to think too much about those confusing things all the time by keeping yourself busy. And therefore will not do some unexpected and annoying things to others like my friend who accidentally or unconsciously or even unreasonably scare others. But what he did is understandable to me, as one of frustrating guys in some particular time of love path.

Anyway, NO WORRY, BE HAPPY!  

你笑著說　他是朋友
但你眼中太溫柔
我的不安　那麼沉重
只有你不懂
*他霸佔了　你的心中
屬於我的角落
所以你說　我們　
不是你和我
#是我想太多　你總這樣說
但你卻沒有　真的心疼我
是我想太多　我也這樣說
這是唯一能安慰我的理由

我想我沒有　錯怪了什麼
雖然你不說　或許錯在我
太晚我才懂　愛了你太多

When i am surfing the net this morning and just come across this Aspiration thought of today in a web. No wonder everyone might read this somewhere before. I can't deny that our own is the biggest enemy. Except for human, other creature won't be so intelligent enough to create obstacle for themselves in achieving things. Sometimes, we still fail in achieving our targets though the external environment is positive. This more or less lies in our own negative thoughts, pessimistic mind, or something else. Whatever it is called, we all know our though plays a vital role in our daily decision-making process.

Lots of factors contribute to how a person perceive the external world. And it will in turn affect how you make decision for your own. In our daily life, we keep making decision almost every second, simply like 'um...i don't think i can complete this job today' at work, or 'i can't be the one she's interested in' in love...it is good to make assertion after u balance the pros and cons with appropriate assessment. But the problem is that, we get used to simply saying 'NO' to lots of things that might happen or could be achieved. Of course, this is not saying that you base on nothing and then make such response. Here is to clarify that your past experience might not completely tell you the whole picture in some cases.

Three months ago, when i resigned from my previous job and started my current one, i did felt confused and worried about my capability in the new firm. Too many worries lead to pressure in the end. And everyday, i just wanted to complete jobs perfectly without any complaint from senior or partner, and therefore being kicking out within probation in the worst case. With time passing by, i finally got through the challenging 3-month last week. With thankful help from my senior or support from any other persons around me, i got what i've been looking for from my partner, 'you passed the probation, mate'. Until this time, i could relax for a while and figure it out that we could actually utilize our own potential to get things done. I always suppose that i could never become capable of surviving in the relatively big firm coz i get used to the small firm already, and therefore never make an attempt to take a step further to have a look at the rest of the world.

Taking one step further is just the beginning, make sure not to take the concept of '固步自封' for your life...

When my friend talked about love and mentioned 'how come the gal will never treat you as friends and go out like social', i think this could be true only when you treat them as PURE friend indeed. Gal or woman is sensitive animal and alert to the external change. Maybe they are born to act as a passive creature and thus they will unconsciously build protection around them and defense themselves in most of circumstances, unlike guy or man who is always taken to be a offensive animal and take every active action to overcome the obstacle and get to the destination...

Don't take for granted that woman passive strategy is ineffective. In most of cases, the non-response action will leave a man confused or even drive him mad...i think most of guys could more or less feel the same. An experienced man will take it easy and go ahead, but most of us could still spend lots of time in figuring out what the hell it is going with her, like my friend who gets almost crazy in the end just due to some possibly fussy things.

What if there is a way to keep away from temptation of getting interested in someone. What is the rite move to the destination...being calm is the only way to do rite thing

OS:如果愛是游戲　可不可以　
對手就是你　yeah life is a game

越是不容易就越是難以抗拒　
你就是致命吸引
想把愛升級　沒有必殺絕技
但我只有真心　yeah

不能停止在想著你　
你已經入侵　要怎樣才可以
完完全全靠近　要在你的思緒
簽下我姓名　yes i do

在這愛情攻略的游戲 baby　
oh 我要占領你的心
該一股作气還是暫時收兵　
oh 比試耐性

在這愛情攻略的游戲 baby
oh 你是終极目的地
成為你的俘虜也是我的胜利
是我的榮幸

"Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition."
-Alexander Smith

Yesterday, when I went to pick up my new glasses, my friends already complained on my late arrival and noted that I was getting much white hair. No surprise to me...coz I also realise that when I style my hair every morning. The first response from my own is too much work and pressure from it. Coz the nutrition is certain, the more it goes to your operation of brain, the less it has to sustain nutrition on your hair. No wonder why hair will become white...

Time is limited, the more you spend on work, the less you have to do other things. To me, work is also a good alternative way to have time pass. I think most of the single person will have the same feeling like this. You have nothing to do anyway, why not just spend time on work. I can't deny this is also a good way to fight against the loneliness.

Don't know when I begin to like the loneliness from work and study. What I'm saying is that, everyone left already, and you're the only person in the office or the classroom. You can enjoy the freedom around you. Especially when you could have a good view over the harbour and city from your office. It's so quiet inside the office except for the sound from computer that you could fully enjoy the comfort. I'm wondering how many persons like me staying in the office late every day in this world...

I also came across an article named 'Pls note man's self-respect / self-esteem' (http://hk.lifestyle.yahoo.com/070910/323/2fee2.html) . It's from a point of view of woman, talking about how to avoid touching man's wound from work and avoid showing off your capability to him. No man will like you to show him your outstanding work capability. It's true. For man, nothing important than work. Without a good work or career, man just look like a boy without direction and will never become strong. This is true to me at least. To feel the power, i need to become more capable at work. To achieve this, no other ways but just keep working and utilizing my time in office to get much closer to the success. Here is the song for most of the lonely gals or also guys like me in this city. The lyric is good and touching.

單純女孩

雖然妳早學會雙腳穿高跟鞋
手裡拿著一杯熱latte　
趕著開會妳早已習慣獨自面對寂寞的黑夜大不了寫project　
大不了上網找人聊天

＊可是妳的心中依然有個空缺　
像是一個都市的孤兒　
忙碌到不知所謂　
當熱鬧的街繁華的店　都已經入睡　
妳會看見自己還是在等待最初的那份美 　

妳的愛　最單純的女孩　手捧著一份愛　
一個人走在寂寞海　還獨自徘徊　
愛　是妳唯一生存依賴　
妳可要雙手緊緊握好　別放開 　

我的愛　最單純的女孩　付出所有的愛　
不怕受傷害　全心愛　還全意期待　
愛　如果都像妳一般勇敢　
幸福會為妳而來　我家大門一直為妳開＊

It's been one year since i began to write my blog...time passes by when you don't notice. When you repeat everyday without any particular thing happening, you won't know the time is passing by. It's true coz every day is too similiar. You could not figure it out what happned on monday, tuesday, and wednesday.

There're lots of things that i really wanna do, such as giving somebody a call, going to one place, asking somebody to have dinner, saying something to someone, etc. But usually, i will think what about doing it a bit later. And then, end up doing nothing...what a pity. I know this well, but just could not improve a bit.

Suddnely remember again there'r such a sentence in a drama, 'Only the stupid people will delay the things they want to do until tomorrow'.

No matter what happened in the last one year, the future is still unknown. To have some plans is a must in order to make things happen.

I came across a blog last nite and noted the meaning of 'Family' from that person. She mentioned, 'Family stands for Father And Mother I Love You'. This explanation is very meaningful.

Tonite, I caught up with some friends and met a couple whom i haven't seen them for around 2-3 yrs. Things changed already. From the time when we studied before until now when they had a 7-month baby, it's long long time. The difference b/w single person and married person is who is the first person that you care for. Maybe this is responsibility. The view about how you think of responsibility represents your degree of maturity to some extent. Until certain stage of life, you will finally choose to accept your life reasonability then find the right one to marry, and to have your baby, and so on...until you have your own baby, you finally have a FAMILY.

Though you suddenly bear much more responsibility, you will find the comfort when you see your baby and your another half at home. Of course, we still feel physically tired. But without them, you will never find comfort in your life. My friends are happy though feeling tired of taking care baby. From their smile, i know that they are happy. Yes, they deserve to be happy with a family. Best wish...

不想看到你哭 找個人傾訴 母用隱藏無助
愛傷人的欄目 淚水的溫度刺骨 已無法復甦
是故意 是疏忽 也是對愛的一種汙辱
真心有苦 癡心有毒
該不該早一點結束
是墳墓 是歸宿 不要走到最後才清楚
為愛而哭 不是錯誤
痛的領悟 總有人不會在乎
受傷的人別哭 就聽我傾訴 你我逆地相處
太一樣的感觸 輸了就心服口服 從不會忌妒
是故意 是疏忽 也是對愛的一種汙辱
真心有苦 癡心有毒
該不該早一點結束
是墳墓 是歸宿 不要走到最後才清楚
為愛而哭 不是錯誤
痛的領悟 總有人不會在乎
是故意 是疏忽 也是對愛的一種汙辱
真心有苦 癡心有毒
該不該早一點結束
是墳墓 是歸宿 不要走到最後才清楚
為愛而哭 不是錯誤
痛的領悟 總有人不會在乎

I have been looking around for my new mobile for a while in fact, but so far still can't find a good bargain. Sometimes, I hope there is one integrated with all the good features from each phone. Of course, it won't happen anyway. Each phone has its own pros and cons, just like each person with own advantages and shortcomings. No perfect person...

I suppose to sign a contract on Thursday nite though I did not have my favorite in the phone shop. Unfortunately, the computer can't process info and therefore ended up with nothing that nite. It's a bit pity but I also felt happy coz I have another several days to consider which mobile i should choose in the end. Sometimes, when i confront with many choices, I'm not the person who can make a quick decision and pick up the right one. I know this is not my first time when i experience the similar situation. When i choose the polo shirt, i ended up buying two shirts with same stripe pattern but different in color coz i could not think out which one is better. I will become regret if i choose one but finally feel that another one is better for me. Therefore, buying two shirts won't bring this feeling to me but of course costs me more...back to the mobile choice, i got three to choose. Nokia 6120, E65, N73. I like multifunction of N73 but don't think it's worthy for that price as an old model. E65 seems ok but with slow response and dark screen. 6120 is latest with fastest response and bright screen but just the look is not ok. I find that, the more i think, the less likely i will buy one of these phones. Reason is that i will try to find out their cons or 'shortcomings' in order to kick them out of my choices. It's a bit funny.

In order not to bring any regret to myself, i will try everything possible to avoid and pick the best favorite. Whether or not i can have it is another thing. I always have a worry in relation to everything i will have, i want it the best. I don't want my money, my time, my effort worthless and meaningless. I don't want me to become regret after i have it. Then i spend lots of time and effort on searching. No one is likely to have something he/she does not really like, rite? At least, i am not that kind of person who can pick something that is ok but not the right one for you.

My friends always say, 'don't be picky in terms of woman, everyone becomes the same in the long term, why you can't accept this and that one.....' well, what is the meaning to have a woman then? Shall we just get marriage because we are not young anymore and therefore have to choose the one that is ok to fulfil your life task? 'Important decision should never be in the rush'. This is the banner i saw everyday near my workplace. It's true to everything. Decision should never be made under pressure. Take control of your life. It's you not other persons who can take control of the life steering. What you want, where you go, how you do, it's you to think of it.

I remember that there's one interesting sentence in a movie '無間道' like this, '如果佢做嘢唔專心,成日望嚟望去嘅話,嗰個就係警察.' Why I'm saying this is because I find it similar to the one my friend said to me recently. '如果佢唔接電話,成日話呢樣忙嗰樣忙嘅話,佢就係唔鍾意妳.'

Well, we all know this trick in fact. But sometimes, when you are in same situation, you might not think it in this way. Coz you are interested in her, and you always think maybe she's REALLY busy these days and thus forgot to pick up my call. You are trying to think out an excuse for her even though she does not tell you the true reason. Love is blind to some extent...I appreciate those persons who could take a step away immediately when they face this kind of situation and never get stuck in it and therefore save lots of time for other things. But I know no too many persons could demonstrate such a movement even for those who previously said, 'I will definitely try another one if this could not work it, why spending time on hopeless thing.' When they actually and personally experience this, they would also get stuck in it and could not step back from it easily like what they say before.

Suppose that she's interested in you as well, she might also try to find chance to get close to you. Though you will say that gal needs '矜持', will she just try to avoid seeing you simply because of this??? Definitely no, right? One or twice is ok in the first few weeks. But what if she keeps saying 'Oh, I'm busy, you know, I am out with my friends'. Or 'Um.....quite tired and don't wanna get out at this moment'....kind of....If this is the case, you know what she's saying and meaning, right? You won't be so silly that you keep putting time on it. Anyway, it's easy to say than do again. We all know these and keep putting comments on others. When it comes to ourselves, we are likely to get stuck in it again...sigh

Again, is the degree of difficulty the major factor that keeps guys putting time on gals? Haha....good questions. I don't think so. The degree of difficulty is usually positively related to the attractiveness of that gal to public. Similar to the theory b/w price and demand, if she is popular to the public and always has chance to date guys, she might definitely look forward and unlikely spend time on everyone. But of course, this is not all. Difficulty also indicates that you are not the right one for her at this stage. Maybe it will turn around in future. Who knows......

Usually, we hear about the saying 'you will realise how he/she/it is important to you until you really lose him/her/it'. I'm not gonna aruge its truth. Everyone will feel something when you actually experience.

We usually tend to suppose or assume lots of things in our life. In particular, if something keeps happening or incurring to us, we will take for granted that it's just usual. That's easy to understand, rite? But when it does not happen again on one day, how do you feel?

You suppose that she will be there everyday and happy to wait for another day. But when she told u that she might not be there tomorrow. Then...suddently a kind of disappointment arising in mind and wondering why. What's happening...I think it's a bit difficult to accept in advance that there will be some negative things happening to you soon. If have chance, better to choose to have no idea about tomorrow sometimes. At least, there are some spaces for you to wait for. But you know the result now, everything becomes meaningless. Maybe you will also argue that, you can save lots of time and plan for other things and therefore makes everything more efficient. To this extent, it's true.